WHEN YOUR CHURCH DISAPPOINTS (ARTICLE)

Let's face it, church is rarely like going out to a movie or dinner but some are like going to a rock concert.  I admit I enjoy the contemporary music so prevalent in churches today but I really prefer Amazing Grace, In the Garden, Just As I Am, and the Church in the Wildwood.  The words worship and glorify Him and the music is reverent. There's a true church and what it stands for that's not present in today's charismatic, seeker sensitive and emotion-driven services of today.  Music should be a part of the ministry but should not be even a quarter of it. We need to learn what God's Word says and means.  I went to one that frankly scared me so much I was never going back and now wish I hadn't.  I couldn't believe how unBiblical that church was.  I'm a nobody.  Not a scholar so when I can see it's wrong, well, it's wrong, lol.  

Here's a link to a great article on how to turn a hum-drum service into one that glorifies our God and Savior.  It is not limited to church, in humble opinion, but can be applied an lots of situations that just aren't that much fun.  Oh, and is church supposed to be fun anyway?  It's fine to laugh and be joyful but when we go to a building, our agenda should be to learn, grow, mature and find ways to help others who are struggling in whatever way you can. God bless and share the Plan of Salvation in First Corinthians 15:1-11.  

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MUCH LOVE TO YOU ALL IN CHRIST JESUS!

HOW TO AVOID LEGALISM IN YOUR CHURCH BY CROSSWALK (LINK)

This is a great article and I recommend you click on the link below and give it a read.  I hope you really enjoy the next month and Merry Christmas.  Wow, it's here again so soon?

Click to Read Article on How to Avoid Legalism in Your Church

God bless and love in Christ Jesus!

First Corinthians 15:1-11

TODAY IS THE DAY FOR YOUR SALVATION (VIDEO BY CHARLES LAWSON ON DEATH)

Not one of us is guaranteed another second on this earth.  Worrying won't change that fact BUT knowing you will forever be with Jesus Christ gives you peace and hope.  Oh grave, where is thy sting?  Oh death, where is thy victory?  Jesus Christ died this for YOU...

Jesus, our Lord God and Savior became a man

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At approximately age 33 He suffered the worst form of death, CRUCIFIXION

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He was buried in a grave

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He rose in body from the grave

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SALVATION BY GRACE ALONE, THROUGH FAITH ALONE, THROUGH CHRIST ALONE!

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I AM THE WAY, THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE.  NO MAN COMETH UNTO THE FATHER EXCEPT THROUGH ME!

FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH IN HIM SHOULD NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE.  FOR GOD SENT HIS SON INTO THE WORLD NOT TO CONDEMN THE WORLD BUT THAT THROUGH HIM THE WORLD MIGHT BE SAVED.

FOR YE ARE SAVED BY GRACE THROUGH FAITH AND NOT OF YOURSELVES.  IT IS A GIFT OF GOD.  NOT OF WORKS LEST ANY MAN SHOULD BOAST.

IF YOU BELIEVE WITH ALL YOUR MIND, STRENGTH, BODY  AND SOUL THAT JESUS CHRIST IS LORD, THEN THOU MAYEST (BE BAPTIZED).  (IF THIS VERSE IS NOT IN YOUR BIBLE -- PLEASE CHECK-- THEN YOU ARE READING A FALSE BIBLE!!!

TO BE ABSENT FROM THE BODY IS TO BE PRESENT WITH THE LORD!

IN THE BEGINNING WAS GOD AND THE WORD WAS WITH GOD AND THE WORD WAS MADE FLESH.

AND THE WORD WAS MADE FLESH, AND DWELT AMONG US, (AND WE BEHELD HIS GLORY, THE GLORY AS OF THE ONLY BEGOTTEN OF THE FATHER.)  FULL OF GRACE AND TRUTH.

JESUS WEPT.  (SHORTEST VERSE, WHY DID HE CRY?

IT IS BETTER TO PUT YOUR TRUST IN THE LORD THAN YOUR CONFIDENCE IN MAN.  (THE VERY CENTER VERSE OF THE BIBLE).

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HOW TO MAKE A "CRITCISM SANDWICH"

I see so much hate and evil speech on social media and read that we've lost the majority emotional of empathy,vital to living in a polite society. I feel social media is to blame as much as being politically correct.  I hate to tell you this but since man was created,he's been offended and I guarantee if you're truly living a life for Christ, depending on how much you admit it and show it to the world, you are mocked, called horrible names, made to feel stupid or even doubt your beliefs.  My best advice, stay as far away from politics as possible.  I call it soul-sucking.  Jesus Christ told us to watch and work. I learned this on a job a long time ago and if you were to actually be honest with others, using this formula (of course adjustiing it but maintaining your core Biblical beliefs, you'll find it works well and shows you to be a true Christian and instead of preaching it, you also show them one of the ways a true Christian lives their life for Christ. LIVE WHAT YOU SAY AND SHARE THE GOSPEL OF SALVATION IN FIRST CORINTHIANS 15:1-11.

For ye are saved by grace through faith in Christ Jesus.  It is a gift of God. Not of works lest any man should boast!

Ephesians 2:8-9

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HOW TO MAKE A "CRITICISM SANDWICH"

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I FORGOT TO CHANGE THE NAME OF MY FIRST "TEACHER OF THE BIBLE" that I want to do and while it was meant to be about Gossip, I felt led to write about how to (I HATE this word) "criticize" someone HONESTLY causing as little pain as possible. I used a rather simple problem...buying a dress that really doesn't look good on someone...so using this formula really works well but, of course, must be adjusted to fit the circumstances. It's called a....(see title below) and the biggest key here is HONESTY and making sure you're not being unfairly critical of someone for personal reasons. Most people (yes men, even your wives) really want to know if those pants make her rear-end look fat. Of course you have to use some discernment here and if absolute brutal honesty would hurt way too much (maybe they were a special gift), then maybe you can still be honest but which is worse, intentionally causing pain to another person or finding a way to avoid totally answering it. Wives (and husbands), this is a HUGE warning to you both...if you aren't ready to hear the brutal truth in case it's not what you want to hear, don't ask your significant other. Our spouses should be our friends but they are our #1 earthly priority and it's our jobs as spouses to build and edify each other as our marriage is a pattern of Heaven. Save the hard questions for your girl or male friends. Let's not put them in that position to help us build strong, honest and supportive marriages. I also don't mean this how it sounds BUT, to add some humor, we women get the pleasure of training our hubbies in the "art of the marriage," lol. You'll know it for 100% sure when he totally loves you in what you wear. Men just are not that complicated, lol. To husbands though, make it part of your daily routine to find 2-3 things different each day to let your wife know how much you appreciate her. No, change that to 2-3 week or at least once at the minimum. If you do it 2-3 x day, it starts to sound fake and it loses its importance fast. Buy them a card, a SINGLE flower, one Hershey Kiss. Less is definitely more here.

So, for the sake of your marriage, our greatest covenant to another person on earth as far as other humans are concerned, when you go shopping for new clothes, or are dressing up to go out, invite a trustworthy friend over, tell them you seek ONLY the truth and let your hubby off this very painful hook. Now lingerie, less is definitely more ladies. He'll love anything as long as you're wearing it. It's gift wrapping to him and you and you alone are the TRUE GIFT FROM GOD TO HIM.

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HOW TO MAKE A "CRITICISM SANDWICH"

By: Brenda Alexander
November 26, 2017
My Very First Sermon but...NOT A PASTOR OR PART OF ANY MINISTRY\\

I actually wrote part of this on a political post but felt God laid it on my heart to actually make a mini-sermon about it. However, I am not now nor plan on being a pastor or a Spiritual leader in the role of pastor. I know many will disagree with my POV and that's fine because this is about me and how I feel and how I read and interpret God's Word. I am not one who believes women are meant to be ministers or pastors,I should say, according to the Word of God. However, I've read many articles and Bible verses that aren't as clear to me as the ones I believe, I am quite sure that I am the most unqualified person to say yea or nay on this subject. I can only speak for myself and while I feel called to be part of the ministry as a teacher or group leader (and expect a post later tonight or next week on what I hope to do and need some Spiritual guidance and will accept small donations IF this is God's Will, the most I'll accept ever ina period of one year is $24. That's just $2/month and is for the 12 tribes of Israel and the 12 Apostles. I don't mind anonymous gifts because many don't like to given openly but I will trust you will follow my rules. I'm not going to check up and I do NOT expect a dime. Any $$$ given will go to buying Bibles and food for the homeless. If it's God's Will to provide me with a shelter to help victims of drug addiction and others, I'm quite sure He will provide the funds. His Will WILL be done on earth as it is in Heaven.

So this is a test to see if I'm getting ready Spiritually and maturing enough to undertake this endeavor. I tend to just jump in and do what I think God wants when it may not be. I get disappointed and feel unworthy when I do this when the truth is, it was ME centered, not Christ-centered. It was for my glory and happiness, not His. Your hearts MUST be right or you may succeed but what will you gain? You'll lose far, far more and you could seriously hinder someone from being truly saved. I do not want to stand before my Father in Heaven on Judgment Day and learn someone is eternally separated from Him because of something I did or didn't do. Now, please read this relatively short "sermon" and I'm begging for feedback and although I ask if you criticize it to be kind, PLEASE be honest. I want truth, not my ego bolstered. God bless and positive feedback is welcome too but only if you really mean it.

Oh, I learned this a long time okay about how to effectively critique or give bad news to others when I worked, of all places, in a weight loss center. If you only knew how much I HATE exercise and how lazy I am, you'd understand. Obesity is life-threatening and it's good not to be grossly overweight and I don't mean "gross" in that "oh, stepping in poop is so gross" way. It means over the acceptable limit. No 5'3" small framed woman should ever weigh 200 lbs. It is ONLY because of how dangerous it is physically. I don't care if you weight 500 lbs myself as far as how you look, I do care about your physical health.

So here's how to properly give bad news (for the most part). One, you don't do it in front of anyone else. That's not part of it but I'm adding it. You have to tell someone that the dress they love and want to buy looks awful on them but you can't stand to hurt or disappoint them. Here are the 3 rules...

1. Tell them that the color (or find something very positive to say about the dress) looks gorgeous on them and if they decide to find another style, find one near that shade. If it's the style and not the color, change it but whatever "good" make it HONEST.

2. Here's the hard part but you should have thought of a very nice way to break the bad news without saying "You look like a big, fat cow" even if that's the truth so let's say it is. First, you don't even mention the "F" word. I would say something like this, "that color is so beautiful on you but the style or design doesn't do their beautiful legs, thin waist, hips or curves justice. Go for that color but let's go see if there isn't another style that WOULD really make those awesome areas pop.

3. End it with a very positive comment but, what is MOST important is honesty. People have this uncanny way of knowing when they're being played. If they know their hips are too big and you say they're beautiful, they may appreciate you not hurting them BUT what happens is they don't know when or if they can trust you. So, end it like this, you have a neck like a swan. It's the perfect size and is one of your best features (throw in an I've always wanted a neck (or whatever) like yours.) Let's go find a style that will show it off and let's then go find an inexpensive jewelry store or Wal-Mart to find THE perfect necklace, pin or whatever they prefer, to go with whatever dress or outfit we find.

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Never be afraid to offer suggestions. People, esp. women, want to look nice, especially if you're younger because they tend to be assure of themselves. If they are absolutely determined to buy the dress, let it go. It may be your personal opinion and others may think it looks great. If you know for sure it doesn't look good, go to the salesperson, esp. another female or same sex (but this example is far more fitting for the female of the humans, lol) and quickly explain the situation, what you've said and ask them to help you out. If they agree with your friend, make the decision as it is Biblical that 2 or more MUST agree, ask a total stranger. Stress honesty. Whatever that 3rd person agrees with, go with that because it very well may be your opinion and it could be jealousy. This is called a "sandwich criticism." Guess what! It usually works. Make sure your assessment is based on them and not you and your issues and compliment, critique,compliment. IF they are determined to buy it, support them 100% and NEVER EVER SAY "I TOLD YOU SO" TO THEM. Maybe you could help find accessories to enhance it.

This was going to be a mini-sermon on GOSSIP and as it's already writen, I'm going to post that next. Be kind, gracious, merciful, compassionate and honest. In the end, if their heart is with Christ, who cares if they wear a burlap sack? I truly hope I get feedback and not just likes. It took me over an hour to write this and if it's not going to be read, I'd rather find some other way to lead and teach. BTW, this is a test question to see if you read it but do you enjoy my Bible questions and having fun to help us fall in love with the Word of God? If so, please, please write on my timeline with ones of your own. Share clean jokes, recipes, Bible trivia/questions, give tidbits of info, let's share Jesus Christ and the Word of God with the WORLD!

WHY I BELIEVE IN A PRE-TRIBULATION RAPTURE NOW!

I'm going to be doing some very different things online very soon.  I am not a minister or pastor, do not feel called to be and while it is my opinion based on the writings of the Apostle Paul, I do not believe women were created to be our Spiritual pastors BUT I do feel very strongly that women have just as an important role in the Church as men but because we are different in the way we look, think, feel and especially in the authority we've been given, our roles is no more or less important than the actual pastor.  Just a question, is it even in the Bible that we are to have just ONE man who is head of it?  If so, isn't that Christ Jesus?  Did they have to go to universities and get fancy degrees to teach the Word of God?  I don't see it but then again, I'm just a born again Christian, unlearned and don't have a diploma with a bunch of fancy letters behind it either.  I just love Him and He loves me.  I even read that in many churches today being born again is no longer a requirement to be a minister, pastor, reverend (which I will NEVER call a church leader...you revere God, not man) and definitely not father or rabbi.  Jesus specifically mentions "call no man father for you have but ONE Father in Heaven.  Call no man Rabbi (or teacher) for yo have no other teacher than God.  I've noticed when "men/women" run the churches, there is much division, disagreements, contentions, arguing, separation, boasting and abuse but in churches where they rely on Christ Jesus alone to lead their church buildings, they may not make $2 through $3 billion a year but they live good lives, devoted to sacrificing any serving. 

Tithing in the Bible went only to Levitical priests.  Jesus Christ is NOT a Levite but He is from the royal priesthood of Melchezidek. Today we have churches making billions a year, tax free, they lie and cheat from you, promising a healing that never comes which can cause someone to believe God rejected them.  Trust me on this, there isn't a man, woman or child who is NOT in need of a Spiritual physician.  We all need His healing but as I understand the Bible (no fancy letters, remember) but we are promised nothing but healing of our sins.  Yes, Jesus Christ and the Apostles were able to physically heal people but He didn't heal everyone.  Nowhere do I see where we are promised physical healings.  To see the such as Benny Hinn, the Copelands, Jesse DuPlantis and many others do false/fake healings to make millions of dollars, live like royalty, have private jets, super expensive cars, houses worth more than 100 of my family will make together their whole lives.  For about a month, recently we literally didn't know how we would eat.  Yet we did.  It wasn't steak and lobster, no $250 bottles of wine and yet I was filled to overflowing because I had food to fill my belly but as it is written, "man shall not live by bread alone but by every word that proceeds out of the mouth of God."  My meal may have only cost us around $8 for both but my Spiritual meal was priceless.  

I don't know anything about Pastor Billy Crone or Olive Tree Ministries.  I checked and couldn't find but a few obscure references about him being a "false prophet" but if I go by that, I can't share anyone for every pastor I've researched, from the church down the road all the way to the obvious liars like Benny Hinn (he had a heart attack while healing someone so "physician, heal thyself), Joel Osteen, the Copelands, etc. that we born again Christians with even with very little understanding of the Bible (like me and the Old Testament) can discern they are wolves in wolves clothing.  They no longer even pretend.  I also ask that you specifically pray for Mike Murdoch.  He's not as "famous" as the others but his sowing seeds of money doctrine is terrifying.  He claims if you want your credit card debt be cleared up immediately, take that credit card and send HIM (mike murdoch only) $1,000,that God will erase that.  Ask yourself this one question, is God your GOD, the love of your life and Who died for you or do you consider Him as a means of getting rich?  Oh,God will bless you immensely, sometimes even monetarily for giving but as for me, I'd rather have His wonderful blessings.  God created the world through Christ Jesus.  He died for us after humbling Himself into a mere man all to reconcile us to Him.  What else do you want or need?   To be saved, First Corinthians 15:1-11.  For we are saved by grace alone, through faith alone, through Christ Jesus alone.  Not works.  It is a FREE GIFT.  Accept Him now because there may not be another day!

God bless and much love in Christ Jesus to you all!

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FUTURE BY BRENDA ALEXANDER

I love to write but I don't know a lot of fancy words.  I love to praise my Savior and most of the best-loved hymns, the words are fairly simple.  Listen to "Just as I Am" and Amazing Grace."  Many times the music is what makes it great.  I can't write music or even read it but I can write a tune.  I pray, if it's His will, to turn this into a song, and if I only ever sing it for Him, that's good enough for me.  If you critique it, please be kind.  It's my first in about 5 years!  God bless and love in Christ Jesus.  Hopfully, more to come.

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                         (I Need a Name)

What once was hidden, has now become clear
Our ears have been opened and now we can hear
The glorious news that Jesus died for our sins
We believe to salvation and our new life begins

Salvation is free and a gift from above
The greatest way He shows us His love
He sent His Son to die on a tree
He did it all for you and for me

The light has come into this very dark place
He chose to give mercy, compassion and grace
Although there's so many who denies that He lives
And eternal life is a myth, one He never gives

He's just another story, one you can forever deny
Until that day when when you see satan's lie
The biggest and best one he ever has told
He doesn't exist and you cannot behold

The glory of God that you trusted so much
It was only told to be used as a crutch
That Jesus never died nor ever arose
The lie of the liar just continues and grows

It's stolen our children, our husbands and wives
No one is left, and no one even survives
We believed him and continued to spread his deceipt
"Paid in Full" was removed from our receipt

As long as you breathe and your heart still has a beat
Then there is hope for you yet, a blessing so sweet
Christ Jesus is is God, our Savior and King
Shout it from the rooftop and forever sing

To God be the glory, for He gave us His Son
Whose salvation He gives can never be undone
It is eternal, accept it today for God cannot lie
Victory is ours and you shall hear our cry

Accept Him today and I promise you this
The old life you lived, you will never miss
For this journey to Heaven is the best life of all
For He is there to catch you when you fall

We are spotless and our garments white as snow
Not by what I do nor what I think I know
It's cleansed by His blood shed on Calvary
Now His Spirit dwells inside of me

What He has joined, no one can take it away
We have His promise to be forever together one day
His Kingdom will be forever, a world without end
And in His presence we shall will never end.

ANOTHER DENOMINATION SLIP SLIDES AWAY BY WRETCHED

This is an excellent OT/NT link.  Israel is a type and shadow of the Church.  However, I reject any claims of "replacement theory."  We are not Israel and God has never and will never reject or forsake His chosen people.  Let God be true and every man a liar, to those who claim we are now the new Israel.  God bless and hope you like and enjoy his videos.  I'll be sharing more articles and other stuff over the weekend.  

Get off the internet and don't let it replace your life with others.  Social media has been proven to be addictive and causes many mental disorders in children and some adults.  Unfortunately, my husband is one of those addicted to it.  That's why I'm unable to participate much because I choose to have a life with Jesus Christ outside the internet as I was spending all my time on it.  Call it internet detox, lol, but it's not funny and the owner of F/B said he knew it was but he DID NOT CARE.  He just wanted to get rich.  Sad.  Unless you're in need of an organ transplant, the "world" can live without you just fine and better yet, so can you!  God bless you all.

SUICIDE IS NOT THE UNPARDONABLE SIN BY WRETCHED

This is a subject that I ask you to tread lightly if you disagree.  Too many families have been destroyed by suicides, I have 2 in my family and an attempted one of family members.  Are they going to be with God?  I have my doubts but not because of their taking their lives but one of salvation.  I have to live with that knowledge.  But, by His Grace, I don't know so I have hope.  The worst thing you can ever do to a family member of a suicide is to say they're in hell.  You WILL lose your friend.  I promise you that.  Be FULL of grace and keep your opinions to yourself.  God bless and any negative comments will be banned.  Much love in Christ and if you suspect someone thinking of this, I don't care if they'll hate you forever...get them help NOW. 

Share the Gospel and lead them to Him!

First Corinthians 15:1-11

THE CROSS!

IS THE CHRISTMAS TREE WRONG? ANOTHER GREAT VIDEO INSIGHT

While I only put up a very small, hand-made tree my dear sister made me last year, I don't put up trees, although I miss it.  I have a lot of Hallmark ornaments I inherited from my mother and sat them out but, I waited until the last minute and then took them down on December 25th. I won't put them out again but that's my conviction.  Those ornaments are pretty valuable (some anyway) and didn't really fit with my Biblical worldview.  They felt more like graven images, a show of wealth (although we're about as poor as one can get) and I'm trying to sell them to buy gifts for the needy.  No luck so far but honestly, they cause me more pain than joy.  We have more Biblical based traditions and this year I get to make a feast and plan to invite anyone wanting a meal.  I love to bake and give people baskets of muffins, cookies and fudge and hope to also have the $$$ to include some Bibles but if nothing else, I'll definitely share the Nativity and the Plan of Salvation. As I pray to start a home gathering soon, maybe this will be His way of opening that door.  I say why not give thanks for His birth?  

About santa, I have an alternative.  Tell your kids about Saint Nicholas who loved children, received a huge inheritance and on Christmas would give untold gifts and money to the needy.  Santa is an anagram for satan, I know. But, the original title of santa came from Saint.  Jesus Christ is truth, tell your children the Nativity and His redemption of us.  Then tell them that Jesus Christ blessed your family with "x" amount of extra money so that "santa, who is not Jesus Christ, has a mystery and the great part of the mystery of santa is that as they grow, they learn on their own what the mystery is.  They aren't to ruin it for those who have not yet figured it out.  Then, and here's the part I made up all by my lonesome, is tell each child you have been blessed by God with $200 (whatever amount you can afford) and teach them that it really is better to give.  Don't force them to, let them decide and respect their choice without judgment as children are selfish unless given a chance to not be.   Ask them if they would be willing to donate some of their "mystery santa" money to help those that have to use their money they were blessed with to feed their family or pay rent.  Hold back a some and tell them you too will donate the same amount they do to give them an extra blessing.  I'm almost willing to bet that even the most selfish, self-centered child (regardless of age) will either jump at the chance immediately OR will change their mind. That's where YOU come in.  Take them on a trip to the store, making sure to go by a poor section of your city, (but be safe), volunteer the family to feed the hungry as that is your right and authority as a parent to make them do it even if they don't want to, and also (and this is the fun part), make goodie baskets filled with baked goods, candy, cookies and even the ugliest cookies taste as good.  Include them.  They just might surprise you in how generous they really are.  However, if they say 50%, don't reward them by giving them the full amount anyway.  That teaches the wrong thing as we do not give to get, we LOSE something but gain far more than the latest cell phone or toy.  You learn love, compassion, grace and mercy.  You put Christ's love in action.  Oh, and look for sales and good deals but buy quality toys/clothes and not a bunch of cheap junk for the needy.  I know it makes it look like you're giving more but sometimes less is better.  They are just as worthy of the latest toy or gadget as your child.  

Last, in addition, ask them to go through their things and what they no longer want, wear or play with but is in good to excellent shape, it's fine to include those but shouldn't in in place of.  Oh, and don't buy a poor family a computer so their children can use it for school and fun unless you are also willing to pay for their internet.  Most parents can't afford it and many cities provide free internet to the needy.  Be sure to check that out.  The same for cell phones.  It's useless if the parents can't pay.  Maybe even your child would be willing to do extra chores or even find grass to mow or dog walking to earn the money to pay.  Kids are amazing and have this way of pleasantly surprising you but the downside is, it tends to show just how selfish we adults can be.  God bless and enjoy the season.  Put God first in all things and you will be fine. We are free in Him and have liberty!!!

WARNING...THIS IS MY PERSONAL OPINION ONLY BASED ON HOW I INTERPRET SCRIPTURE.  WE ARE FREE IN HIM AND NOT OPEN TO ARGUMENT OR DEBATE.  FEEL FREE TO HAVE YOUR OWN OPINION, CELEBRATE IT OR NOT BUT DON'T CONDEMN OTHERS FOR GLORIFYING OUR LORD AND SAVIOR, JESUS CHRIST IN TRUTH AND SPIRIT!  BE SURE TO ALSO MAKE CHILDREN AWARE THAT DECEMBER 25TH IS NOT HIS REAL BIRTHDAY, WE DO NOT KNOW THE DATE OF HIS BIRTH.

WHAT TO TELL YOU KIDS ABOUT SANTA? (VIDEO)

Well, it's about that time of year and I'm sure the same arguments are being played out again on Christmas and whether we should celebrate it or not.  Honestly, Paul says all things are lawful, just not all profitable.  I don't condemn or condone it.  I have my own unique way of acknowledging that one day my Savior was born and that's the day Salvation became possible.  I don't do trees, not for pagan reasons but lazy reasons but there are some Biblical reasons why I choose lights and candles plus some flowers rather than a tree.  If you put up a tree, I think it should be a family tree...one where the kids or grandkids make the ornaments and you make it for you rather than beauty.  Kids love it.  Santa has a bad rep.  I hope this video shares some insights for those who want their children to have the "santa" experience but in truth.  Best video or article on this topic I've ever seen.  Agree or not, don't be a stumblingblock to your brother.

CAN A CHRISTIAN DENY THEIR FAITH: GREAT ANSWER(S) FROM "THE BEAT"

I'm growing in the word!  This is exactly what I thought.  Hope you find this a blessing and a help.  God bless and love you all in Christ Jesus.

MANY ARE CALLED BUT FEW ARE CHOSEN? CONFUSED BY THIS? I WAS.

In light of John 3:16-17 this verse confused me and seemed like God created certain people to be condemned BUT knew in my heart, it was His failure but my not understanding.  I believe this confuses others too and, like me, make them wonder if they've really been "saved" as maybe God didn't call us.  After all, we still sin, have doubts and sometimes stray but always return.  I strayed very far but never stopped believing in Him.  One of the very few things I can say "good" about my previous life.  I felt Him with me even when I said I don't believe in You anymore.  Oh, I was angry until the Spirit sort of "told me" in His way, "Brenda, how can you be mad at Someone who doesn't exist?"  The light turned on immediately and my journey began back to Him.  It wasn't overnight and, sad to say, took too long but God's timing is perfect.  So yeah, the once saved/always saved doctrine that causes so much division, yeah, I'm convinced of it.  The seat of my pants may have been burned by the fire of hell but I'd have made it.  At the time, that was fine with me but not anymore.  I want rewards for my work NOT for me but for His glory.  I want to know I did good things for His Kingdom and made a positive difference in others' lives. You never know when all it takes is a bit of grace to someone undeserving to change their lives.  Never pass up on an opportunity to show grace.  For it is by GRACE you are saved and GRACE will lead you home.  I found an excellent article explaining this many are called issue that brought it into perfect light. Yes, you are called and have been chosen.  You have ears to hear!  God bless and much love in Christ Jesus.  Show love in return by sharing the Gospel of Salvation in First Corinthians 15:1-11, esp. 1-4 (the Cross and shed blood of Jesus Christ alone).  He is the author and finisher of our salvation!

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What does “Many are called but few are chosen” in Matthew 22:14 mean?

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Question: "What does 'Many are called but few are chosen' in Matthew 22:14 mean?"

Answer: This statement is the conclusion to the Parable of the Wedding Feast. Jesus spoke this parable to show what the kingdom of heaven will be like when the end of the age comes. In the parable, the king sends his servants out to gather the wedding guests to the wedding feast. But those invited refused to come, some because they were too busy with their own worldly pursuits and some because they were positively hostile toward the king. So the king commands his servants to go out and invite anyone they find, and many come and fill the wedding hall. But the king sees one man without wedding clothes, and he sends him away. Jesus concludes by saying that many are called/invited to the kingdom, but only those who have been “chosen” and have received Christ will come. Those who try to come without the covering of the blood of Christ for their sins are inadequately clothed and will be sent into “outer darkness,” (v. 13) i.e., hell.

Many people hear the call of God which comes through His revelation of Himself through two things—the creation and the conscience within us. But only the "few" will respond because they are the ones who are truly hearing. Jesus said many times, “He who has ears to hear, let him hear” (Matthew 11:15; Mark 4:9; Luke 8:8, 14:35). The point is that everyone has ears, but only a few are listening and responding. Not everyone who hears the gospel receives it but only the "few" who have ears to hear. The "many" hear, but there is no interest or there is outright antagonism toward God. Many are called or invited into the kingdom, but none are able to come on their own. God must draw the hearts of those who come; otherwise they will not (John 6:44).

Second Corinthians 5:17 says, “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; the old has gone, the new has come.” God creates life, grants repentance and gives faith. Man is totally unable by himself to do these things which are necessary to enter the kingdom of heaven. Ephesians 1:4-6: “For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves.” Salvation is by God’s will and pleasure for His glory. John 6:37-39, 44-45: “All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never drive away. For I have come down from heaven not to do my will but to do the will of him who sent me. And this is the will of him who sent me, that I shall lose none of all that he has given me, but raise them up at the last day…No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him, and I will raise him up at the last day. It is written in the Prophets: ‘They will all be taught by God.’ Everyone who listens to the Father and learns from him comes to me.”

So, all of God’s “chosen” will be saved without exception; they will hear and respond because they have spiritual ears to hear the truth. God’s power makes this certain. Romans 8:28-30: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. For those God foreknew (loved) he also predestined to be conformed to the likeness of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers. And those he predestined, he also called; those he called, he also justified; those he justified, he also glorified.”

How do we know if we are among the few that have ears to hear? By responding to the call. Assurance of this certain call, this chosen call, is from the Holy Spirit. Consider Philippians 1:6, which says, “Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” “Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed—not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence—continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose” (Philippians 2:12-13.) If we listen with our spiritual ears and respond to the invitation, there will be fear and trembling in our souls as we recognize that it was God’s work in us that caused our salvation.
Recommended Resource: Chosen But Free, revised edition: A Balanced View of God's Sovereignty and Free Will by Norm Geisler and The Potter's Freedom by James White

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ONCE SAVED, ALWAYS SAVED? HERE'S WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS

I admit, I struggle with this but IF we can, what would it take?  An unrepented sin?  If so, no one will make it.  What if we have doubts?  I dare say no true Christian hasn't had doubts.  Unbelief?  Then we never believed in the first place.  We had a false sense of salvation and you never produced any good fruits.  By the way, fruits don't mean deeds, repentence is fruits, as is patience, love, meekness, etc.  Fruits of the Spirit.  Many cannot go out and spread the Gospel due to physical or mental disorders.  If sin causes you to lose it, then how many times does Jesus Christ have to die to shed enough blood to cover all your sins?  What if you lie, steal or hate someone?  When is Christ Jesus's blood no longer able to cleanse you?  We should ask for forgiveness every day or every hour/minute but to ask to be saved after every sin, mistake or accident, that's Spiritual schizophrenia.  God is not the author of confusion but of peace.  If you have to worry about your salvation 24/7, is that freedom and liberty in Christ Jesus?  Is that peace and hope? No.  It's fear and worry, something that Jesus warns us not to do.  Give your life to Him and He and He alone is THE only author and finisher of our faith.  Also, why after living for Him would you EVER want  to serve satan or money? Time to accept that there's nothing you can do, not speak in tongues, get baptized or share the Gospel, attend every church service or read the Bible that will save you.  Christ did it all.  Ephesians 2:8-9!  God bless you.

How to be saved?

First Corinthians 15:1-11

Grace alone, through faith alone, through Christ alone!

PROOF OF THE RESURRECTION

Many atheists have been so angry with Christianity that they go out to prove beyond a doubt (Lee Stroebel, for example) that Jesus Christ did NOT resurrect from the dead and, as the Bible says, if He didn't, we are the most pitiful of men.  It would make the Bible a lie.  They end up proving beyond a doubt that He did.  This is just a short video but go to YouTube and do a search, there's many of them that turned from rabid atheists to absolutely devout believers.  He rose from the dead.  Share and like on their YouTube channel, not my site.  God bless you all and TY for prayers for my David.  He's coming home tonight and there are no issues with his heart.  God is good!  Very, very good!  Love in Christ Jesus!

SPREAD LOVE BY SHARING THE GOSPEL

FIRST CORINTHIANS 15:1-11

JOHN 3:16-17

EPHESIANS 2:8-9

THE GOSPELS

ACTS 8:37

ALSO, IF YOU ARE READING A NEWER TRANSLATION AND ACTS 8:37 IS NOT A VERSE, YOU ARE READING A FALSE BIBLE.  PEOPLE MADE THEM REMOVE THIS VERSE BECAUSE IT SAYS "JESUS CHRIST IS LORD" AND THEY BELIEVE THEY ARE BEING FORCED AGAINST THEIR WILL TO ADMIT THIS.  NEVER MIND IT SAYS YOU "MUST BELIEVE IT WITH YOUR WHOLE HEART AND SOUL."  THIS IS JUST SAD!

HOPE

i'm going to end tonight's shares with what we all need a huge dose of tonight and that's hope.  We can't live without it for more than 1 second.  I hope this encourages you.  Pray for those hurting tonight in Texas.  We NEED some hope.  God bless and love in Christ Jesus.  Please go to YouTube, like and share from their site rather than mine.

share the greatest hope...salvation!

FIVE THINGS EVERY NEW CHRISTIAN NEEDS TO KNOW

What if your calling is just worshiping Him and being the light of the world and salt of the earth?  What if we have many abilities?  Not all are called to the same purposes. Grow in His Word and He will lead you when you are ready but don't be surprised if your calling is sweeping the Church?  It may not be glamorous or life-shattering but it's a good calling.  Humble yourself and obey Him and give Him the glory for all you've been given.  Remember, He said the least of you on earth will be the greatest in Heaven.  Love God and others.  Obey Him and that's all He asked of you except to share the Gospel and be the light of the world & salt of the earth.  You are worthy by His blood!

BOOST YOUR PRAYERS BY "THE BEAT"

I am so glad I found this channel cos I don't really schedule and time my prayers.  I always try to pray for a minute first thing, I am so bad about saying Grace but I do say it even if it's after I eat, and then I pray as I am falling asleep.  I felt bad because I don't do many "formal" prayers but yet I talk to Him constantly.  It's like I wake up, say a quick prayer thanking Him for another day and then it's nonstop the rest of the day.  I do formal prayers on occasion but I just talk to Him all the time.  Sometimes I don't even have to "pray" to have it answered.  Honestly, is prayer for us or God?  I sometimes think it's for us cos He already knows but prayer keeps US remembering WE need Him, not the other way around.  It's to create a personal relationship with our Savior and we pray without ceasing.  God bless and keep me in your prayers please! Prayer is our best weapon!

SHARE THE GOSPEL OF SALVATION

FIRST CORINTHIANS 15:1-11

ARE MEGA CHURCHES BIBLICAL? 7 SIGNS OF A HEALTHY CHURCH BY THE BEAT

Let us all be convinced that our churches are healthy and preach the truth and are more interested in salvation than money.  We are not under the law of tithing and any church that preaches this should be a red flag. They should preach that we should give and give abundantly and most of all, cheerfully.  How many people do you hear gripe about the collection plates and resent how often they're passed?  What about resenting having to give 10%?  Well, tithing was only in place when there was a Levitical priest. We are not under a Levite priest now.  Every pastor I've asked this and admit it, they say the 10%'ers are losing half of the amount of money they'd be getting if they taught the truth because instead of only 10% unwilling tithes, the average giving is 22.5% of their income and tend to give to special love offerings very generously.  Today, even giving 5% could cause a family to lose their home, not eat, etc.  They don't go to church because of the guilt and shame that some pastors call them on in public so they're starving Spiritually yet they always, always find some way to help others.  AND they do it cheerfully, even if it costs nothing but time.  There's tons of ways to give and anyway, you can't buy your way into Heaven.  Something just to think about and learn the truth of God's Word!  Church should be about saving people, not buying better sound equipment or fancy cars. 

Question - Which do you think God would prefer you do?  Give a church a lot of money OR spread the Gospel to someone who needs it and lead them to the Cross?

DO PROPHETS STILL EXIST TODAY (VIDEO BY THE BEAT)

Oh, I can hear the outrage of the charismatics and Health, Wealth and Healing pastors now!  Did the prophets heal?  Did they promise you wealth and prosperity?  Take money?  The better ? for me is does the Holy Spirit lead you?  Does He convict you of sin or give you the day/hour of Jesus Christ's return?  I don't believe in modern day prophets in that new revelations of His Word is given.  I believe He speaks but unless it lines up with scripture, you are listening to a false prophet.  God lays burdens on my heart for others many times.  He guides me into making good choices.  I'm even almost (but not quite) sure He or an angel spoke directly to me but if so, it was meant for me personally, not to share with the world. No revelation.  Jesus Christ also warns not to add to or take away from the words in the book.  I believe we are given great insights into prophecy already foretold.  Prophecy is also not to tell the future but to verify the truth of the Bible throughout the ages as it is fulfilled.  Discernment is extremely important here.  New doctrines?  No.  New ways to be saved or God really didn't mean _______ (fill in the blank).  Ah, yeah He did.  We change, He doesn't.  What was sin in the beginning is sin today.  So we can soften sin all we want to coddle the world and make them feel saved but continue to live in willful sin.  Is that love?  Sometimes love hurts.  Love convicts.  Love cares more about your salvation than your emotions.  This is my POV and whenever someone says "God told me to tell you..." a red flag goes up.  I sometimes feel strongly that God wants me to tell someone something or pray for them but God does not audibly speak to me.  What does His voice sound like?  And why doesn't He speak to me?  He does.  He left me a great book and if I want to hear Him speak audibly to me, I read the Bible out loud.  Yes, He speaks to you but are you listening to Him or your own thoughts and trusting other spirits?  Our adversary can imitate but cannot do anything else.  But are there really prophets today?  I say God can give anyone any gift He wishes.  This IS His world.

WELCOME TO POST-CHRISTIAN AMERICA BY WRETCHED

Normally, his videos are fun and enlightening as he is (or was at one time) a comedian.  He uses humor a lot and laughter is good for the Spirit.  When you enjoy a sermon or Bible study, you are way more likely to remember it.  Laughter is a great gift of God but, like all His good gifts, it's abused and misused.  We find ourselves laughing or sharing and sharing things that maybe doesn't bring glory to God.  I find humor to be very healing.  I even play with God. Jesus must have had a wonderful sense of humor and knew how to relate to children because they flocked around Him.  Kids do not like grown-up fuddy duddies.  They want to play.  Never be so grown you forget what it's like to be an innocent child.  

However, this one isn't funny and some probably won't like half of what he says.  You don't have to agree but I would think about it in light of what God says.  This is about that Church shooting in Texas yesterday and guns/justice.  Is it time for the churches to publicly say "no more?"  We are going to protect our women and children first. Whether you are pro or anti-gun, that's your choice but how many people have to die at the hands of psychopaths before we stand up and say WE ARE NOT GOING TO TAKE THIS ANYMORE?  I say now is the time to send the world a clear message.  Yes, I am very pro-gun and if I see you in danger, I'm not going to ask you your political or religious beliefs before I keep you safe either.  It's the RIGHT thing to do and you know it!  What is worse to you, killing one man hell bent on killing many or the slaughter of untold numbers just worshiping God?  No one of any faith should ever have to fear being mowed down at their choice of where to worship.  I have heard many "Christians" say we should start blowing up Mosques to exterminate Islam.  Are you kidding me?  Where does Jesus Christ EVER give you that commandment?  It makes me sick. It makes them no different than Muslims who kill Christians and no, I do not believe that every Muslim wishes me harm.  I'm not going to debate it.  We are living in perilous times, people.  I'm seriously thinking of starting a home church and/or Bible study or one where we gather at a park.  God doesn't live in a building.

God bless and pray for the families and loved ones of those slaughtered at the hands of a madman yesterday. 

Feel free to disagree with this and if you're like me and the thought of owning (or having to own) a gun makes you physically sick, I completely understand. I swore I'd never own a gun.  Unfortunately, today it's almost impossible to be safe and not have one. I may own one, I may not.  I don't ever admit or deny and to ask you will be met with "that's not your business."  Guns or self-protection is Biblical. We live in perilous times and many people own guns who pray each night they never have to use it. No law-abiding gun owner ever buys a gun hoping for a chance to use it except at a range.  I love to target shoot.  It's a sport! But when or if we get one, I'll be one of those who pray about it a lot.  So please, this isn't pro- or anti-gun.  This is about people not in church who are considering finding one but are now getting too scared to go.  It's about protecting our brethren and our visitors and getting down to sharing the Gospel and leading others to the Cross.  I don't need or want to hear your POV on guns and if churches should be armed.  Maybe 20 or more people would have woken up this morning if they had.  Please think about it!

First Corinthians 15:1-11

John 3:16-17

Ephesians 2:8-9

IF YOU ARE SCARED TO ATTEND CHURCH TODAY AS MANY ARE SCARED TO GO TO A MOVIE NOW, PLEASE UNTIL YOU FEEL SAFE AND DECIDE TO GO, I HIGHLY RECOMMEND THE FOLLOWING PASTORS THAT WILL GIVE YOU GOURMET SPIRITUAL MEALS AT YOUR FINGERTIPS. FOREGO CHURCH IF YOU MUST, DON'T REJECT SALVATION!

Justin Peters Ministry

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Grace Ambassadors

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J. Vernon McGee's sermons from the 70s

Not a complete list and will be added to as often as necessary and shared!  You can also find many others on the right hand side of my blog.

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